How to Avoid Texting your EX!

Heartbreaks are the worst. After building up a strong bond, getting attached, considering the person as your life, it’s really difficult to cut off entirely. Forgetting everything within no time is not a cakewalk. You may feel the urge of checking the last seen, stalking his/her social media to see any updates, and much more to it. Here are some ways you can avoid texting your ex:

Ways to Avoid Texting Your Ex

• Idle mind, Devil’s workshop

The more you sit idle, the more it’s going to play on your mind. So the best way out is, to keep yourself occupied. One thing leads to many thoughts that turn evil and can affect your health. First and foremost, delete the number and remove that person from all the social media handles. The reason for this is, when you sit idle you tend to check and stalk you’re EX whichever way possible. Secondly, if you’re best friend has your ex’s number or follows him/her on any social media platform, do not ask them to check the last seen and give you updates. All of this is nothing but curiosity as earlier you were habitual to his/her texts, calls and in one go everything was over just due to lack of communication, understanding, etc and whatever may be the reason.

• Wish-List Check!

The wish list is the best thing. It’s never too late to start a new thing which you want to learn. Make a list of what you wish to do such as something like:

• Hobby
• Course
• Dance
• Exercise
• Bake
• Draw

These activities help a lot to keep you indulged in something you love! By doing this you will be distracted and slowly- steadily come on track!

• Be Productive

In the above, I spoke about ‘Wish-List’. So the next thing is to implement it! Being productive is the best way to deal with any kind of situation. After making a wish list try to accomplish them all but by enjoying it and not just for the sake of it! Enjoying what you do and taking a keen interest will help you develop and focus on better things in life. Take everything as a challenge and tackle each task.

• Be aware, it’s self-care!

 Every breakup teaches you a lesson and we must learn from it so next time we are aware. It’s always said, ‘Some people teach you lessons while some are blessing’. Always remember “ME-TIME” is always important. Think for yourself, love yourself, keep yourself on 1^st priority. Pamper yourself the same way you would do to you’re ex! Once you start doing this you will realize how important it is to follow you’re own steps and to be you!

Also check: Do’s & Don’ts Of Reaching Out To Your Previous Partner