Signs you are in an Abusive Relationship

Signs you are in an abusive relationship: There are many a times when we overlook . We try to overlook the faults and follies of our partner when we are in love , but it is very important to step out of your so called beautiful relationship before it turns out to be an abusive relationship.

A relationship which can be called an abusive relationship is not always limited to physical abuse , abuse can be sexual , psycological or emotional too.

To get to know if even you are a prey of abusive relationship here are the signs that will help you to know if you should stay or move out of your relationship.

Signs you are Going through a Abusive Relationship

Psychological Abuse

• When you find your partner humiliating you or embarrassing you for small little issues .
• Ignoring you or your phone calls constantly or excluding you from gatherings
• When you find your partner having affair with someone else .
• If your partner tries to dominate you or control your activities .
• When your partner tries to control you with money power .
• When you feel that your partner is withdrawing his or her attention from you .
• When you find your partner having unreasonable jealousy with you and your work .
• When your partner uses mean jokes or constantly makes fun of you .
• When your partner threatens to commit suicide if you leave .
• When your partner tries to make you feel guilt trip .

Key Signs Of Abusive Relationship

1. POSSESSIVENESS

   They try to control your activities , like where to go , where not to and if you dont follow then they get angry.
   They try to have a constant check on you I.e with whom are you talking , checking your call recording or asking for the chats you have with others .

2. PUT DOWNS :

   They keep comparing you with others constantly
   They keep blaming you for the problems and troubles in your relationship.
   They say you things like , “you are useless” , “you are just a burden on me” , “noone will want to have a partner like you”.

3. THREATS :

   They try to threaten you or say that they will harm your dear ones like your family or friend .
   They threaten you by saying that they will misuse with your personal data .
   They yell and shout at you , and break your valuables.

4. JEALOUSY:

   They accuse you of being unfaithful or flirting with someone.
   They isolate you from family and friends by being rude to them or by behaving very harshly with them .

5. PHYSICAL AND SEXUAL VIOLENCE :

   They harm you or your pets .
   They beat you or use slangs on you .
   They push you or hit you or grab you .
   They make you do forceful sexual activities which you don’t want to do .
   

   Points to note which will prove you are in an abusive relationship

   > Your partner may try being sorry for what he or she did , may try loving you but it’s high time abusers can be incredibly charming people .
   > Your partner may also ask you to give him or her chance to correct the misunderstandings or to give another chance to the relationship but physical violence if once has occurred then will continue to occur .
   > Your partner may blame you for their abusive act but remember you are not responsible for anybody’s abusive behaviour.

It is important to know that it is absolutely not your fault. Abusers are expert manipulators and they will manipulate you to believe that the way you are being treated is because of your fault. These people know that everyone has insecurities, and they use those insecurities against you. Therefore once you find these signs in your relationship the only thing you should do is “JUST STEP OUT OF THAT RELATIONSHIP “